Originally Posted by
cagefree 
After recovery, I doubt codies and alkies alike are ever the same again. A good thing IMHO
I think that if people grow together they remain together. If one grows and the other doesn't, or if they find they cannot grow inside the relationship, that is when they go separate ways.
Just my 2 cents
I am struggling a little tonight because I have embraced AA and my recovery and my wife is having a difficult time. I know this will take time and I am willing to let go and let god work in this area of my recovery.
To be honest one of my biggest areas of concern is that Her drinking seems to be at or above the level when I went into recovery, and I'm not really sure how to deal with it. I'm not sure that she is and A, but it sure seems to be an important part of her life.
They told us more than a few times during rehab that couples either grow together or grow apart during recovery. I pray that God can help us to grow together. Thank you for time and support.