Yeah, Ann, I like what she said about choice, too. I also understand the rollercoaster of emotions that you are going through. One minute being strong together and the next falling apart. Hey that's life magnified by an addictive relationship, isn't it? Being honest with others and ourselves is so healing. That's what's so great about this site. We can be honest and not hide our shame, fear, grief. Don't be afraid of the contradictions in you. They are allpart of you, matosam. I do like that choice thing. I think I will print that on my forehead.lol
krhea