Change the focus - stop looking at him to change - look within yourself and make the changes that you hunger for - journey the path without him in mind .. and in the end if he decided he wants to change then he can catch up .. hopefully it won't be to late .. but if it is .. its his loss .. he had his chance
Sometimes you have to get away and let your head clear..ya know. I had a hard time knowing what boundries I needed to set, let alone stick to them. I didn't know how I felt or what I wanted. I didn't know the truth from a lie.
I was sick.
You are sick.
Your kids are sick.
Your husband is sick.
Someone has to let go and it is probably not going to be him.
You can do this.
Hugs, Michelle