i also know the visits go in rehab & prison. i hate to go, been there ,done that. is this his first time? it is still about the addict, in there eyes & what they want untill they have a lot of clean time & are working the program for a long time do they begin to change there ways. lots of addicts get clean but still have there nasty ways.saying a prayer for your son that he willfind his way.saying a prayer for you that you will take care of yourself. i am glad to know that you are not going next week, especilly if his attitude does not change. hugs,