Wow, a lot of responses here.
I did tell her how I feel Saturday after we attended an AA BBQ together. She said nothing at first, but then called me later in the day and told me she's dating and wanted to keep it hidden from her sponsor and the group.
Check my motives.....I have been. That's why I was tossing and turning all night.
I called my sponsor Saturday immediately after the phone call. He said I did nothing wrong, that it was good I told her how I feel. I haven't told him her beau has 7 years sobriety.
One thing I've learned from this is I'm sooooooooo not ready for a relationship. This was just a little hickup, can you imagine if things were serious and this happened ?
I'm usually not a drama queen. This is so unlike me.