look back on the last year or so .. how long have you been coddling your as for ?? and exactly what has your coddling done for him ? has he changed for the better ?
is it still a roller coaster of him drinking and causing chaos in his life and yours ?? how long are you willing to live like this ?
Seriously , I know how easy it is for me to give 'hard to hear' advice and the second I receive some 'hard to hear advice' , its notso easy ! But you have to put it into perspective . He will carry on without you and the only thing you will miss is the rest of your family if you dont go .