same here Lost, i would always end up driving so another trick i had was i would make sure that if i had to go out with him i would choose somewhere really far away in the middle of nowhere that would take a good hour to get to. In my codie head it made sense two hours of no drinking. The hours drive there was always lovely i would have my normal darling man; on the way back i'd find mr jeckyll sat next to me.
M x