If you hang around AA long enough, you'll find people that you can relate more closely with. Try several different meetings. Remember, it's not how much or how often we drink, it's what happens to us WHEN we drink. I myself was a daily drinker, but I've met plenty of binge drinkers as well. It took more than 1 or two meetings to begin to identify with the others. Give it an honest try before you decide it's not right for you. Many others have felt that way, also. You are certainly not alone.
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BHJ