I am sorry for your pain. Perhaps your daughter would do well in a rehab, and there are many for women. It's so painful to see our children destroy themselves. Maybe a little while of not having a place to call home will open her eyes.
I have often dreamed of living somewhere where there were no drugs or alcohol, but no matter what country or villiage I read about any where in the world, (even the ancient world!) there has been some kind of drug or drink. It's inescapable!
So, I guess I have to live where I'm at, and learn to deal with those around me who choose to drug and drink.
It's very draining isn't it?
But, with a little self care and learning how to detach with love, we don't have to feel so helpless and overwhelmed.
Hope your day is getting better.