welcome to S.R. addiction makes you feel soooo powerless because you are.someone ahead of me listed the 3c's.i say them over & over again.the addict in my life is my son.he started drinking at 17,at 23 he was serving his 1st sentence in prison due to crack.i have finally got the program that i am powerless.i have had to let him go as hard as if was.i my heart goes out to you with two addict kids.you & them will be in my prayers.please keep coming back.hugs,