Welcome Mindy, Sorry for the reasons that brought you here, but glad that you found us. My addict is my 21 year old daughter. She is my only child. My husband has said that he wished we had had more children. I told him that they could have all been addicts. That we should just count our blessings on that one. I was careful about making sure my daughter knew the facts about addiction since there is alcoholism on both sides of our family. She had everything that she needed to succeed in life, instead she is living with her 37 year old crack addict boyfriend. Other than drugs, she does nothing with her life. We stopped enabling about a year ago and have maybe seen her ten times since then. Last time in March. It is a difficult road but one that you don't need to walk alone. Hugs, Marle