Thank uo so much for that. It has been my worst nightmare. Both of my children......... and I talked and talked and talked to them growing up about their "dangerous genes", their father died from alcoholism when he was 48 and they were 14 & 12. They only met him once before he died. I NEVER bad mouthed him, told them that he was very sick, took them to therapy and still IT happened. I know I can't blame myself but it sure is hard not to. I am so gald I found this site