Hi guys....yes your right we do always have a choice....that's not quite what I meant......
We adapt according to someones behaviour, if someones angry, we put up a wall....if someone is kind then you feel comfortable. Instinctively we adapt.
that's kinda what I meant....it is like adapting to liveing with 2 or more personalities....(my mate sober ^under the influence)
I do understand that I have a choice.....oh how I know that....