SR Friends, thank you for your responses. It sounds as though you know my AS personally. I have noticed the eyes, both bright and blurry, the evasiveness, the change in appearance and lack of cleanliness. For a while I noticed the nodding. He also had the mysterious disappearing televisions and VCRs.
One story I will share. My son asked for money to take a particular young woman out on several occasions. Then I asked what Leslie's last name was . . . he couldn't tell me. Is this from the loss of brain cells, or do you suppose he was not being truthful?????