pure sefishness... they promise to help you with something, or maybe not, maybe even just to be home for lunch one day... and they never ever follow through, or if they do, they are about five hours late consistently.
Also, the inability to keep a job seems to be pretty normal... ras had something in the neighborhood of 4 jobs in the past 2 years, and I'm pretty sure she was fired from each and every one of them, usually for being late or, as she claims with one of them, b/c "her shirt was not ironed," which probably amounts more to the consistent lack of hygeine.