Anvil I understand what u mean about renee. Yesterday I was tearing up cause my one niece I think feels like the ugly duckling right now. Her sister is always talking about how everyone calls her pretty and boys wanna date her. Then my other niece tells her "friends" she likes a boy and the boy ends up liking her friends instead of her. I think shes beautiful though. I was just sad cause I could feel the disappointment in her voice. It was the same way with me and my sisters too. I told her that once they (boys) get to know her they will see she is someone special. Which she is and she said thats what she was gonna do let them see how fun and pretty and nice she can be. Sounds like a plan to me.