Thanks to all I now have 52 rolls of duck tape!!!!!
She had her girlfriend come over for a while this afternoon and ad left but friend stayed to see how I felt about everything. She had tried earlier to explain to ad that it would take quite a while before I felt any kind of trust again. A few of her friends have tried to explain to her the power of a simple thank you or I'm sorry, but she (ad) just doesn't get it.
I do know that asking her about halfway houses put the fear of god into her, the thought of being kicked out might work, who knows.
Off to my meeting.......