Where the body goes. . .the mind will soon follow. My old sponsor used to tell me this when telling me to "act as if". Act as if I was ok with the way things were and that I knew it was going to be ok. I did the best I could and now 3 1/2 yrs later, it's not a deal anymore! We're divorced, I've got a 3 yr old, he's in prison. . .Life is Good.