By all means, share them here. Our "ism" is exactly that - codependency. And for me, it's a lifelong issue. I use the tools I've learned in Al Anon in everyday places - work, home, grocery store, in the car etc etc. I have to continue to read, share, go to meetings etc in order to keep the balance in my life. Otherwise, my codependency goes into hyperdrive and ... well, it gets messy.
This is a wonderful place to share. If this particular forum doesnt seem to fit, try the F&F of Substance Abusers, or perhaps Women in Recovery. I'm betting you'll find just the right fit.
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