I can relate. I got into the same funk. I surrounded myself with nothing but users.
My neighbors party a lot & I just give a friendly wave & smile. Good job on deciding to go for a walk. How long can you avoid your party-buddy? Does she understand your current position?
I was shocked at some of my friends who totally respect my decision. Some others don't. I think it was the constant company of partying & now I'm bowing out. It might make them reflect. Scary.
Again great choice. Being a *newbie*, it was neat to see you reach out to this forum & reaffirm my decision that this is a neat place.