Originally Posted by
Spritual Seeker 
Usually the situation is way more screwed up in your head as your thinking snowballs and your avoidance grows.
Learning to deal directly and quickly is the way to live life. You gave us a good example of this. Oh the wreckage...slowly + steadily
Yeah, there's an old saying I try to go by...
When it hurts, laugh 'till you cry...then cry 'till you laugh again.
I can't know how much sense it makes, but it seemed appropriate at the time.