I am struggling, I have drowned in letters from prison. My ex-abf, writes me at least two letters a week....all saying the same things...I love you, I am clean and sober, I am a changed man, I realize what a mess I've made of everything, asking for another chance and on and on.
This has been going on for a year, I read some of the letters, I toss some of them without reading...I have not responded to any of them...I have written a few, but, I put them aside for a week, and then decided not to send them.
Then, there are the collect calls, which I refuse, at least 100 of them.
I just don't understand why he keeps writing/calling, I feel like I am sending him a message by not responding, he doesn't seem to get it.
The worst part is that he is getting out soon, I know he'll come a knockin and I really don't know how to handle it, talk to him and tell him to get lost, or just not answer the door and continue my no response senario and hope he will go away.
Any thoughts?