((((Teke)))
You are a kind and generous person. And you are in need of care, so give yourself the same care and concern that you would give others.
If she does "get in" so to speak, maybe you could turn the tables and tell her that SHE was right, conversations are just not good right now for anyone, and you need your rest.
That is, of course, IF she reaches you. You really owe her nothing right now.
Hang in there and take care of yourself
((((Hugs))))
Cece