thanks lies and big sis, you are so right, but anything i do or say that does not agree with her program, she in the past has caused some of the biggest arguements between ah and i. she goes back and tell him that i disrespect her, her word becomes law and it does not matter what she says to me or how she treats me, i'm suppose to bow down to her i guess, and the problem comes because i'm not that kind of person.
i guess i'm gonna have to just come right out and tell her something, but what i just don't know or i don't know how to talk to her without offending her and having her twist everything around to make me the enemy, she is a "devoted christiam" so she can't be wrong, you know the kind i'm sure.