I don't mind you asking at all denny57. Mostly its because I don't want to live in this big old house anymore. Too many bad memories. Its a 6 bedroom house, built when we married to acccomodate his 3 daughters and my 2 sons. His daughters are basically out of his life because of his drinking. My older son is rarely around because he's in college and stays with his dad when in the area. Only my 18 yr old is withus full time while he goes to college locally.
The dreams this house was built to accommodate have been broken beyond repair.
We married 4 years ago and his minor daughters live with their mother.
I will give a quick call to my attorney on Monday to make sure I won't be screwing myself though.