He's such a liar!
I am sure he is telling the little lies in order to cover up the fact that he is still doing his "controlled" drinking. ABF is too good for AA. This disease really and truly is about ego. And, I am becoming more and more aware of myself as I observe him from a distance. He tells a lie, I know it's a lie and I don't call him on it because it isn't worth it.
He and I are long distance. I last heard from him about noon his time on Saturday. Phoned him towards evening and his phone went to voice mail. Tried again on Sunday and more voice mail. No emails and no contact until this morning (4th July). So he tells me that his Internet had been down for three days. Maybe but....I "found" him on his fave porn site all those days. I let it slide. Then he tells me that he went out exploring on Sunday on his new bike and it took him 5 hours. He tells me about what he saw and bingo! I realize it's on the route to cross the state line in order to buy beer on Sundays if you live in his no-beer-on-Sundays state. That's why his little trip took so long. He even lied about the distance between A and B (place he said he'd gone).
I don't want to end this with a fight. He has asked me why I sound so distant. I guess I am feeling colder and colder towards him.
Thanks for listening.
ARL