It's OK to have yourself a little "Pity Party" once in a while...just as long as you don't stay on that pity pot too long...you could get stuck there!
I think we all have the "poor me's" from time to time, for one reason or another. But, even though you may feel lonely, you're never really alone. Right here at SR you have a 24/7 meeting with folks from all over the world in different stages of recovery, ready to share their experience, strength, and hope.
Check out the posts and see if there might not be someone who could use some consolation from you...it's the quickest way I know of to take the focus off myself...reaching out to someone else in need of emotional support.