(((((Jeri)))))
I know reality SUCKS when it comes up and hits you in the head like that. However, the gratitude you will feel upon getting through this will be tremendous.
Speaking of Gratitude, maybe now would be a good time to make a new Gratitude List, you will see how lucky you are to have him out of your life.
As to his calling you, he just needed some CHAOS in his life (another manufactured excuse to continue his slow suicide).
Vent away my dear. Yes I feel sympathy for his current wife, and I hope she finds Alanon, however, she is not my problem, nor is she your problem.
Please do not be hard on yourself, we alikies, while practicing our afflictions are THE CON ARTISTS IN THE WORLD. We make great used care sales people and can sell refrigerators and freezers to an eskimo in the blink of an eye.
PM me if you need to vent and/or talk.
We care, you know that Jeri, this will pass........
Love and lots of hugs,