Liesagain - Having been with the female Houdini of all addicts I understand the pain that you feel. Although I found my xagf half the time at a drug house and after I would barge in and risk being killed, it only made things worse finding her. He is a addict and a miserable one at that. I do hope you take this last straw event and get rid of this guy. As far as the child I cant help you there but your happiness is all you can work on now not the childs. Take care.