My ex-AH use to undermind whatever was happening with me unless it included him... and a major that he would work on was my career. He would do any/everything to make me feel bad about my career (granted in the beginning I was a workaholic) and embarrass me ... it got to the point that I would not attend any company functions that included spouses... unless I knew he could not be there.
WOW. That's true here too. According to AW my job isn't good enough....they dont' treat me right....I don't make enough money....TO HECK with the fact I actually LIKE what I do....