Originally Posted by
liesagain 
ya know.........this man knows you very well he knows that by hurting the kids he can get to you
dw,
lies is so right! My ex has used my kids as weapons for years and years, all the while claiming that he loved them. What a crock!
I really think they are better off not seeing him right now; you posted a day or two ago about the hurtful things he is saying to your daughter. He will not stop those tactics and that will hurt her more than not seeing him. He is sick.
My little boy sometimes says he wants to see his dad, too, but his dad is not willing to abide by the supervised visitation rules. He was supposed to see little one only in the presence of one of the older boys, but he harrassed them and made their lives so miserable that neither of them are willing to have anything to do with him.
It really rough when our kids want something that isn't good for them, but as the responsible parent it is our job to protect them from being harmed by anything-even the other parent.
((HUGS))