I am sorry that he is gone again. I had asked the same questions about my daughter. But it really has nothing to do with you or me. I has to do with them, the addict.
As much as we would like for it to be "all about us" it just simply is not.
Remember the three "C's"
You didn't cause it
You can't control it
and You can't cure it.
I wish we could cure them. As much as we love them, it would be easy; but this is about them.
Keep posting and keep reading.
Hugs to you
Terri