Sugarpup,
I have not read your other posts, but just curiously, by him saying that to you, how do you consider that abusive? The way I'm reading it is that he's just stating what he feels, and if you no longer care about him and want to divorce him, what do you care anyway? And as Liveweyred says: His words are a reflection on himself not on you.
If I'm missing something, will someone please fill me in. Thanks.
QT