but, back to boundaries, how do i allow him to see the kids and not abuse me? do i have to let him see the kids?
I'm not an attorney, so its good your seeking their advice,,
I do have some thoughts though.
Does he need to see the kids at your home?
He needs to know his actions are unacceptable. Your BOUNDARY is if he starts speaking to you in that tone, he will hav eto leave YOUR home. No discussion. if he refuses you will have him removed.
Short and simple
I simply refuse to listen to the abuse
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What are you doing for you today?
Peace