I had no idea.
So, I'm new to all of this. Coming here, I kept seeing the word "codependent". And I didn't know anything about it. I'd heard the word, of course, but I never had any idea what it meant. I foolowed some links, and started reading a book that several people have recommended to me. (Codependent No More)
And OMG... It's me.
I had no idea, can you believe that? I had no clue what was going on with me. Certainly, I had no idea what to call it. And here I am, reading what feels like descriptions of myself, of my relationships both past and present. How strange.