I guess I will be the hard *** and tell you more of what you don't want to hear.
You can tell us you are sorry for things. There will come a day that you will need do the same for yourself. Forgiving others and asking for forgiveness from others is easy, even when done right compared to forgiving self.... forgiving ourself seems to be where most of us run into problems.
Think on what you want to do before you do it. The forgiveness you save yourself from...may be your own.