Sydney, there is also a past i'm dealing with my bf, when i met him he was a year broken up with a fiance after 8 years together, he was beyond rock bottom and as a total friend i talked to him and we started dating, part of the problem i believe is that he has never gotten over her and that's why i cant help but think there is something still there deep down inside. Part of me feels like i masked the rebound factor and that he has feelings because he said he wanted to appologize for all the wrongs he did to her in the past....i trust him but not sure how far, she could say the right thing, and bang he's back and i'm left high and dry and she's a LOSER to boot.