"treat themselves as a commodity whose price is set by others."
Wow, can I ever wear that one. If some cute guy will pay attention to me, I basically am, well, as you put it, there for whatever scraps I can get. Boy, that sucks to realize.
The good news is that I am learning. Tonight I made a good decision that was in my best interest, even though a really cute guy was trying to get me to meet up with him. The why I shouldn't is a long story, but the fact is, I know better. It took me a little bit to register....I actually got up, put on a cute skirt and makeup, and touched up my hair. Then I looked in the mirror and realized....this is not the right situation for the right reason with the right person. This person's intentions do not look good. When I tried to talk myself out of that, giving him the benefit of the doubt, I remembered if it quacks like a duck........
So what now? I'm sitting around in my PJs with a perfectly made up face and hairsprayed hair. LOL!
