Rae in a place I rented once lets just say I was having "fun" in the shower with my bf and I lost my balance and put my butt right through the whole shower wall. I mean knocked out all the tile and the wall behind it. Now try explaining that one. I was so embarassed..... Last time in the shower I tell u too dangerous for me. lol. Thats my story of humiliation well I got 100's more though but one at a time. I cant remember exactly what it cost but it wasnt cheap!! I dont blame u I would be livid at your ex fix it and send him the bill wait get him to sign somthing first that way when u take him on Judge Judy you will win and the whole world will know what a JERK he is....... JMHO