I don't pretend to know what's right for you. And I can't really speak to your situation. I left my A's arse
However, I can tell ya, if people try to stick their nose in my business, they are SORELY disapointed. I'll cut the tip of it off,,,,lol
How do you think they would feel if you passed judgment on them?
Oh, so you don't think I should n't stay with my husband? Ya, well, the color GREEN you painted that kitchen, looks like something my youngest used to throw up after peas!!!!
They soon forget what their opinion was,,,,he,he,he
A tad "out there" I admit, but for me, if I let judgement affect how I take care of ME then its not healthy. Their no better than my A when he's drunk and spewing nonsense about delerious wrongs I supposedly committed. Ever try and argue with them when their drunk?
Useless,,
Same as listening/arguing with opinionated people
Nuff said,,,
Peace