Emmer, my dear, I believe that's called a trigger. I know you can work through it.
Take it from me. A couple weeks ago, my husband and I went into the local coffee shop and ran into a guy that's really been trying to screw with my husband's business. He started talking trash and my husband walked out. I stopped turned to him and told him "Personally I think you're an obnoxious ***hole" (sober,mind you). He's now suing me for verbal assault (rolls eyes)