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Old 06-14-2007, 08:51 PM
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liesagain
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sorry your going thru this I sent you a PM

Why is it that in the end we seem to end up being the issue..........

tonight when I spoke to my AH from rehab he starts telling me things his counselor has said like..................you never committed to you marriage your void of emotion I'm not sure you love her and I'm not sure you ever have..............and that he the counselor was calling me tomorrow.........
AH has been really detached for the last month or more and ...........so I ask him what do you think and he says I DONT KNOW ........

maybe its me and my codependant issues coming out but I really feel like "they" are there looking at his "life" trying to find reasons for his ISSUES and now somehow I am becoming the issue...its because he doesnt love me maybe hes just been miserable or something ..........GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
The blame game sucks!
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