Originally Posted by tedseeker
So, the plan is
this is still your plan not
his. Them feeling their pain is what makes them quit not us trying to control their world. If he is not ready to quit there is no amount of manipulating the situation by you or anyone else. If he wants to drink he will.
Believe me all the ones responding to you feel your pain and know where you are coming from. Addiction uses love it chews it up and spits it out when it has lost it's flavor...keep the focus on yourself dear one...