We've spoken about this before Jazz, but I still can't have a bath even on my own.
Baths either meant a) he ran one for me to have so that I was out of the way and he could get topped up with booze without me there or b) a prelude to sex. There was no enjoyment for its own sake.
Perhaps that's a man woman thing, rather than a drunk/non-drunk thing. I just don't like feeling set up so that if it is all I want at the time, then I am being rejecting. Actually, I think I was always being set up to reject him. I think that's what he felt most comfortable with.