Wow thanks for all your perspective, and encouragement freinds. I just saw my counsoler for the second time last nite and she had preety much the same line of thought as you all. Her encouraging words empowerd me to make the decision to get a place August 1st .........i feared moving out and drifting into oblivian. But i totally CAN do it, i still maintain a good paying job( i pay rent here
, my BipolerII is under control and i am seriouse about my recovery. And ya...I AM 36, time to stop fealing like a little kid. I mentioned to my mom she is co-dependant and that didn't sit well. I just read the sticky on co-dependency and detachment tonite, very good stuff. I know i have to concentrate on myself, i would like her to find comfort in concentrating on her recovery.....just have to convince her that she needs to.
Hmmmm should i email her this thread or would that be to much