i made a mistake...
it occured to me after a bit that i printed some things that i shouldn't have with the idea that no one would know me or my ex. well, it likely is the case, as the internet is a vast place. but i wanted to say i wish i wouldn't have pulled up his "inventory" for all to see, and i'm really ashamed i did that in my post.
anyway, i just wanted to say that.
gg