This might sound sick but....
Have any of you taken advantage of your A's when they were drunk?
I was thinking about this and I SO have..
When mine was drinking sex was soooooooooo good.
When mine was drinking it was easier to get him to buy me and the kids stuff, stuff we didn't need. and I would always tell the kids, "I'm not sure if you can have it call your Dad' knowing he would say yes.
I'm a bad bad person.
When he was passed out sometimes I would take the kids to there Aunts house and go out with the girls and have a great time.. I would even take my wedding ring off.
I'm a bad bad person, but now that he is gone, WEEEEEEEEEEE, I'm having even more fun!