Elana, I was not saying he was different at all! It seems like they do- that particular group- potsmokers, they think they are not like otehr drug users, cause its only pot I guess. Believe me, it took me a long time to figure it out, but I know it's ver much the same- maybe even harder because it is looked at as a less severe addiction, with less dangerous consequences, so it seems harder for them to get past the denial stage maybe...