hey girl....I am so sorry that you are going through this...but until she decides to stop the carnage will continue...just remember the 3 C's hun:
You didnt cause it
You cant control it
You cant cure it
I dont know how old the two of you are but it sounds like the 20's. She may be one of the ones who have to lose it all before she sees the light. If she is resorting to hiding booze then having to have it first thing in the morning this is not a good sign. But since this disease is a progressive one it sounds like she's moving right along at a pretty good pace. You can't do anything to make her stop just keep an eye on her and let her know you love her and also let it be known to her that you won't enable her in any way. If she is going to self destruct then she has to go solo. Keep your chin up ok. Hugs to you and your family....
Janit