Originally Posted by
CE Girl 
Thanks Taz, I had a light bulb moment
Wow! That makes two of us CE!
Originally Posted by
Tazman53 A lot of different reasons, depending upon where they were in thier disease when they got together with the woman. An awful lot of active alcoholics seek out a codie, some one that they view does not have enough self esteem that they feel they can crap all over and they will still take care of them. If they sober up this type of woman may be a total turn off for them, they may want a woman who is thier equal in thier eyes, that has good self esteem and they know will not tolerate thier crap if they screw up again. In other words the A has learned that in order to stay sober they need a woman that will dump them like a hot potato if they screw up and not enable them to drink again.
Taz, the is the most interesting thing I heard and it makes so much sense!! I've had a moment. Wow!
Originally Posted by
Bjen Would I really want to take the chance of him falling off the wagon again?
That's it Bjen! The always wondering when and if. Of course in light of Taz's spectacular point I may not be the one for him anymore.